Is your guy/girl pal is acting kind of strange lately? Does it seem like your boy/girl-friend wants to be your boy/girlfriend? The whole process of analyzing conversations, deciphering gestures, and consulting your equally clueless friends can be tiring and extremely frustrating. To know for sure, here are a couple of signs that will help you determine if there is really a romance in the works or if you're just having a romantic-comedy movie overload.This post is all about an article I read on a magazine; by the way, the whole introductory paragraph came from the same article, I just copied it [ I don't have the luxury of time to think of a new one ]. Since today is the day before V-day [and it's Friday the 13th too], I decided to detach myself from Chico and Del temporarily [ since I observed that my last 3 entries are derived from their program] and come up with a topic relevant for tomorrow's occasion. So I'm going to write the whole article here from L. A. Consing Lopez [ I'll try to add something if my brain won't malfunction today ]. It's all about the signs which shows that someone you know, be it a friend, a neighbor, a classmate, a teacher [as long as it doesn't look like a child abuse] or even a stranger is already staring to have feelings for you. It tackles about the things that would determine if that 'someone' likes or loves you na. It's a great help for someone [especially for girls] who can't tell if somebody already likes him/her.
Here are some of the signs the author has listed..........
1. You are is His/Her Universe - If it seems like you're getting more attention than the rest of the girls/boys in the barkada lately, maybe it's because you're the center of his/her universe right now. If it also seems like all of a sudden he/she doesn't talk to you about his girl/guy problems, it's because you're the girl/guy that he now has a problem with. * Yeah..it's true, take it from me [as if I'm an expert when it comes to love matters!!] if you like someone, of course you would do everything just to catch his/her attention..you won't stop making papansin to him/her..... but I believe girls do it more often, they are the ones who'll do the first move, flirting you just to force you to look at her [to see her beauty and hotness, if ever she has, but it's good if she do].., to talk to her. Believe me, I've seen a lot of girls doing this stuff. I mean boys act a lot different from girls. To catch a lady's attention, we don't flirt [we're a little bit shy to do that] , we just try to have a close contact with the girl [in the form of sitting next to her not the dirty acts you're thinking!!!] so that we could talk, ask for her mobile number and befriend her and do the cycle everyday till the friendship turns into a higher form of 'ship' .
2. A Man of Manners - Has he been more polite lately? Sensitive perhaps? If the scenario has changed from yanking your seat (to make you fall flat on your butt) to pulling your seat (to tuck you in nicely), then there is definitely something going on. Once the guy has developed feelings for you, you're no longer one of the knights at the round table, but the princess of his castle.In this scenario, dude doesn't look like the lady; she's become THE lady. * It's for the girls obviously. It's true, when a guy likes a girl, he will try his best to be 'gentleman' to the girl even if he's not known to be one. We change ourselves to be nice to that girl so she would think that we passed our GMRC [Good Manners and Right Conduct] subject when we were in grade school. Be it in the form of paying the transportation fare whenever you're together, up to treating her every lunch, helping her with her schoolworks and the like.
3. Just the Two of You - Has the group been dwindling, or could it be that less people are showing up for the usual gimmicks? It's neither. In fact, if a guy seems to ant to spend more time alone with you, then it's a sign that there are new feelings on the rise. Perhaps he wants to act sweet around you without it being witnessed by the entire group. It's easier for a guy to open up when it's just the two of you...* It's true for both genders. I mean if you like someone, you'll try to isolate yourselves from the rest of the group primarily because you want to spend more quality time with him/her, to share sweet/romantic moments with him/her....you are now in what we called 'dating' process.
4. Same Old, Brand New You - Is he suddenly noticing your 'new' hairstyle? The smoothness of your skin? Or basically complimenting you all the time....on things that have always been there?!..Then it could be true, this guy Likes you. So even if you know that there's nothing new for him to be commenting on, or if all this attention blossoms out of nowhere, humor him and give him a chance. After all what girl doesn't like to be noticed?.....Yeah...guys do it most of time, we like teasing the girl we want, noticing everything about her to have a topic for a conservation....but girls do it too, they notice our new haircut, our shirt....and some other things. [ my brain's starting to break down]
5. Part of Your Daily Life - Your friend will use every opportunity to be with you, even if it means adding new activities to his schedule and developing new interests (your interests). If he suddenly wants to join you in yoga, help you shop for shoes, or hear daily mass with you (well, we all knew what he's praying for), then this means that he's trying to 'prepare' you for more pair activities....*It's true for either boys or girls. If you like someone, you'll do everything to be a part of everything he/she does, to be a part of his/her everyday routines because you want to spend more time with him/her....
So, if you know someone from your group/barkada that's been doing some of things written up there to you, then confront him and tell him/her that you want him/her too or say to him/her to stop and quit doing those things for you don't like him/her.....For the girls, if you don't like the guy who's been practicing these signs to you, then say it straight forward to him, don't make him wait for nothing for years...and if ever you would say NO to him, do it in a nice way....we deserve some respect!!!....[ Am I revealing something here?? ]
Well, HAPPY VALENTINES to all.......I think I'm one of the people who has this motto, "Love is in the air......but I don't care."....hahahahaha
...Wait!...having no special someone, doesn't mean you don't have to celebrate the V-day,...Your family and friends are there, they are the people you'll celebrate your love with all the time. Ciao.
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